I can't tell you how much-needed this little getaway was for me! Work has been stressful (as evidenced by previous posts), and this is just what I needed. Shane's parents gave him a gift certificate to the Timber Cove Inn up on the Sonoma Coast and we stayed there on a Thursday-Friday earlier this month.
We headed up north shortly after we dropped off the kids at daycare, and enjoyed stops at a beach and a late lunch at a roadside stop. We were able to check in to our ocean view room (!) and enjoy the rest of the afternoon by walking around the grounds. We also spent quite a bit of time just vegging and watching TV (for those of you that don't know, we haven't subscribed to cable for 2 years!) all the while sipping champagne (note my red face!). Finally when sunset came, we went back outside and watched the sun go down. Though it was beautiful, we didn't stay all that long because it was really brisk and windy!
We had a really lovely dinner at the Timber Cove's restaurant and Shane even treated me to dessert--I indulged in the hot fudge sundae... YUM!
Friday I tried to sleep in, though those efforts were shot the moment Shane woke up. Oh well. At least I didn't have to get up at 6:00! Getting up at 8:30 was a treat! After breakfast we walked the grounds again and lingered in our room as long as possible before heading back to reality. On the way down, we stopped for crab sandwiches in Bodega Bay at the Sput Point Crab Company which were definitely worth the small detour off of 101.
By the way, Shane's mom was kind enough to pick up the kids Thursday night and watch them overnight, then drop them off at daycare again on Friday, in case you were wondering! By the time we got reception on our cell phones again, I had a message waiting for me on my cell: my parents are already at our house in anticipation of Micah's birthday weekend the next day! Wait, I thought they said they were coming on Saturday? Oh well. You'll have to wait a couple more hours, sorry!
It is so great to connect and have some 1:1 time with your spouse without worrying about the kids. Don't get me wrong, we missed them while we were gone, but I also felt like the time away allowed us to recharge our batteries and have a blast with them over the weekend. All in all it was an awesome mini-getaway and I can't wait until we can do it again!
Is there such a thing?
I'm finding it harder and harder to achieve it, if it is even possible. I got a new boss a few months ago, and it's been crazy ever since. A different work style to get used to. But slowly, I am. I think the hardest thing for me is my long day. I get up at 5:45 or so, leave by 6:30, work the day, and get home at 6:00 p.m. Add to that getting dinner on the table, bathing the kids, reading stories, cleaning up, and putting Melia to bed... It makes for a really long day. I don't usually get to sleep until about 11:00.
My goal is to be able to have more free time. Free time to spend playing with the kids, free time to read for pleasure, do crafty things... maybe even clean! But as it is, I'm so tired by the time the kids go to bed (at 9:30!) that I don't want to do anything except go to bed. Shane is a tremendous help and a wonderful father and I am blessed to have him in my life.
My New Year's resolution is to be more organized. One of my first tasks to achieve this has been to plan dinners for the week, which, so far, has been going pretty well. It's amazing how simple things like taking out meat and putting it in the fridge to defrost the night before can make dinner preparation so much quicker! I also invested in an awesome slow cooker and that has been great so far. I'm continually on the lookout for tasty, healthy recipes to try it in. But the ability to throw some ingredients in the slow cooker in the morning and come home to a finished meal is fabulous.
The next step is to figure out how to clean the house... and keep it clean. Any hints, tips, or tricks?
I've been reading a wonderful book by Anne Lamott entitled Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith. So far it is a really engaging, light-hearted, and sometimes thought-provoking look at her journey of faith. One passage really got me thinking...
Again and again I tell God I need help, and God says, "Well isn't that fabulous? Because I need help too. So you go get that old woman over there some water, and I'll figure out what we're going to do about your stuff."
Now, I haven't really been the type to think that God is this Master Puppeteer-type just sitting up there in Heaven pulling our strings and dancing us around for His pleasure, but I have experienced Him being a kind of set director behind-the-scenes, orchestrating how my actions are going to affect the scene for the next person.
I guess I just really liked how she phrased it. I think so often we ask God for help, expecting Him to just deliver (right now!) without assuming anything from us. Not to say that He wouldn't help us if we ignored his petition (after all, "...God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us" ~Romans 5:8).
But it is really neat to know that He can use us and that we can be an active part of His plan if only we would keep our ears out for His still small voice stirring our hearts to serve.
I didn't think I was a control freak until about 2 weeks ago. I was waiting for a response from someone and I kept thinking, "Why haven't they written me back?" Once they did finally write back and I didn't receive the response I was hoping for, I got disappointed. Looking back, I have to think, "Why? Why was I disappointed?"
It's because deep down I needed to be in control of the situation. Luckily God--through his Word and the confirmation from my Sisters--helped me to realize that the situation is not mine to deal with. I did what I was told to do, and now it is up to the Lord to work in the hearts of those who needed to hear His words."I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow. So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow." 1 Corinthians 3:6-7
What a blessing it is to be used by God, though. To hear a distinct call and to have the courage to answer it. I haven't been this encouraged and refreshed for a long time. I hope that as I continue to study His word and spend time with Him, I will hear more from Him and be obedient to whatever He calls me to.
I was convicted the other day when I heard a woman in my Bible study talk about how she was afraid of continuing in the study because she thought that if she grew in her relationship with the Lord, then she would leave her husband "behind." Her husband apparently is a Christian, but limits his invovlement to attending church on Sunday.
How sad, I thought. I mean, my heart truly broke for this woman. Here she is, she knows what is right and what God wants her to do (study His Word, learn and grow), and yet she is hindered by the thought that he won't be in the same place as she is in her relationship with God.
I was so burdened by this woman's struggle, that I wrote an e-mail to many of my single girlfriends the next morning. I basically outlined the story and quoted 2 Corinthians 6:14-15:"Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?"
I challenged my friends to seriously consider the consequences of not only marrying a non-Christian, but a "lukewarm" Christian. Yes, I know that women do it all the time. In their desire to marry, they settle for someone less than God's best for them. And though I'm sure the marriage is good, they do not find the spiritual support that they want or need.
My friend Rebecca read my e-mail and commented that it was well-written and that between this one and others I had sent to her recently, she was asking the Lord whether this could be a new ministry for me. As we talked, the thought stuck in my mind, and I haven't been able to shake it since.
So I decided to start this blog. First only for myself... to post thoughts and other things that the Lord is teaching me, and perhaps later to share. We'll see where He leads.
